But He replied to them, “When it is evening, you say, ‘It will be fair weather, for the sky is red.’
“And in the morning, ‘There will be a storm today, for the sky is red and threatening.’ Do you know how to discern the appearance of the sky, but cannot discern the signs of the times? ” – Matthew 16:2-3 (NASB)
I have an 11 year old boy and a 10 year old girl. At our house, there is change coming. You can feel it in the air.
Subtle changes are occurring in our kids’ bodies. Parts growing, other parts, er, sprouting (or so I’ve been told). My little girl just got over her first bout with acne. A friend took a long look at her the other day and said, “Her face is changing; it’s becoming less child-like”.
But there’s one thing that tells Lintilla and I we’re in for a bumpy ride.
The moodiness. Oh, the moodiness!
Last night, we had sulking, we had tears, we had fights, we had screaming, we had the silent treatment. And this was just at church. Both of our children, up till now so well behaved and intelligent, seem to have gone insane literally overnight.
Our house suddenly has a tension in the air I’ve never felt before. They are good kids, but one can’t help but feel we are on the edge of a blowup or a meltdown, or both.
Oh, and we’re dealing with the emotional swings of menopause at the same time.
I’m told that the fun part hasn’t even started yet. Oh, goodie. It’s a tough way to live, this highly emotional state, all the time. I now understand the impulse to get the doctor to give the kids a pill to make all of this stop. It’s pretty tiring.
But, this is normal. I was talking with Ford and his wife the other day; they have teens, and they believe that God arranges things so that when it’s time for the kids to leave the house, everybody in that house is eager to see it happen.
We aren’t there yet, but there are signs on the horizon.